the good king
Become the loving, masculine servant leader your kids deserve and your wife desires.
A mentorship & coaching community for men who seek an exceptional life.
For the few.
you were created for more
By getting grounded in love and capturing a vision for the adventure of their lives, the men of TGK are…
Becoming powerful masculine leaders who own their sh*t and stop letting themselves (and others) down.
Inviting their wives into true intimacy and a shared adventure.
Leading their marriage and creating space for the feminine to arise and flourish.
Being present and playful dads that inspire their children to reach their full potential.
Connecting to an ancient spiritual path that transcends the modern religious structures and actually transforming their lives.
Seeing the Kingdom of Heaven emerge in their marriages, their hearts, and their homes.
Getting set free from porn and other addictions that keep them chained down and weak.
Transforming their identity from one of being guilty and ashamed to one of being loved and respected.
Speaking the truth about absolutely everything - especially to themselves.
Gaining clarity on what their purpose is in life.
Setting clear goals that align with their values and are deeply motivating.
Living from Love.
Coming to live out their faith in a deeper more satisfying way.
You were made in the “Imago dei” (image of God)
it’s time to start living like it
You were created in the image of the King of Kings. You were made to live like the Good King and stop…
Escaping your life in porn, drugs, alcohol, gambling, or social media
Abdicating the spiritual leadership of your home to your wife
Watching another man raise your children and sleep with your wife because you couldn’t find your masculine grounding.
Feeling bored and unmotivated in your marriage, family, & career
Being lonely and isolated
Wasting years watching porn behind closed doors, feeling guilty and ashamed
Destroying your mental, physical, and spiritual health with destructive habits
Not having agency in your life
Living unconsciously, numbing your pain with drugs, alcohol, or food
Missing out on the best years of your children’s life
Being afraid to let your kids see the real you
Letting anxiety and depression rob you of the best years of your life
M. Lantz
“Most of my life I floated down the stream of life, going wherever the currents took me, choosing the way of least resistance.
Patrick reminded me of who I was created to be. I have become more confident, BOLDER, and gained a new strength. I have started a journey full of vision, risk, love, and beauty And I cannot wait to see where this great adventure takes me.”
THE Good king ethos
freedom
Free yourself from porn and other addictions that are destroying your life and threatening your marriage. Become self-governed and free to serve love.
Purpose
Discover your true purpose in union with God. Develop a vision for your life. Live in alignment with your deepest values and find rich meaning in your life.
ADventure
Stop scrolling listlessly through your life, bored and medicating the pain away. Step out in faith, start speaking the truth, and go on the adventure of your life.
Brotherhood
There are plenty of weak men in the world. Surround yourself with true brothers. The few, the strong, and the noble. Iron sharpens iron.
beauty
Rescue your marriage and bring romance back into your life. Step into your masculine strength, tap your innate creativity, and make beauty flourish all around you.
Legacy
You can bestow healing, or you can pass along shame and trauma. Poverty or wealth. Do the work now to build a multi-generational legacy of love & abundance.
Patrick Miller
TGK is hosted by coach & mentor Patrick Miller. Patrick and Mary live with their family on a country estate in the hills of Amish Country: Holmes County, OH.
meet your host:
Seven years ago, I was in a desperate place.
I was on the precipice of losing it all.
A life of addiction and lies threatened all that I held dear. I didn’t know how to break free. I was spiraling deeper every day.
Outside, I was a good guy. I went to church and worked hard.
Inside, I was crushed and dying.
Medicating my pain with ever more potent doses of porn, fantasy, and illicit sex.
A trusted mentor pointed me towards an ancient path of transformation, and I began the adventure of my life.
Now I live like a king. In relationship with the King of Kings.
I enjoy the peace & presence of the kingdom of heaven and am surrounded by the love and honor of my wife of 23 years, and our five beautiful children.
Now I help other men make the same changes in their life. I’ve created a coaching program and community for the few men who are committed to transforming their lives and become the men God made them to be.
My family have talked a lot about what we’ve learned over the last seven years. I’ve taken what I’ve learned and created LIVE LIKE A KING coaching framework.
Stepping up as a man and allowing yourself to truly transform is a heroic and sacrificial act. It requires radical ownership of everything in your life, and a deep commitment to love and truth. It strips away the false parts of you and leaves you more solid and true, more masculine and more grounded in love.
Men are created to be the strong, protective, wise leaders. It’s time that we owned our shadows, faced our fears, stopped wasting our life force on porn and cheap sex and start creating our vision for our life with courage and intention.
Let’s do this in community with other men committed to this highest path.
I shudder to think that I almost threw away this precious gift of life.
My wife and I are friends and lovers. Intimate, safe, and deeply connected. She has stayed with me through the brutal pain of betrayal and has committed to this healing way of love.
I enjoy rich relationships with my children and delight in them as they grow into adults.
God has recently blessed us with a late addition to our home. As our bodies and our spirits healed, our fertility returned, and little Penny came along 15 years after our fourth child.
My children had a front row seat to my transformation - I’ve shared my story with them, and they’ve watched as I’ve done the hard work to bring healing and restoration to our home.
